The problems we were talking through — for example, what if someday our sex drives didn't match up? We were just going to be more proactive about them.
The bigger question was whether or not God was drawing us together. Travis was also tentative when he first developed feelings for Leah.
Also consider how you get along with the person’s friends, because these people will also be part of your life.
Johanna said she found it a bit awkward to connect with her boyfriend, Paul’s, friends, even though he was only three years younger. I felt removed from their age and current life stage," she says. A friend once told me that the acceptable age difference was half the older person's age plus seven.
"God brought us together, and once we knew that, the other factors didn't really even matter. The couple still serves together in ministry and has two teenage sons.